The epidemic of flaking has been discussed and explored before. In today’s modern feminist societies, it’s quite common for a man to meet a girl who sexually “instigates” him deliberately, yet:

  • She ejects from physical contact (directly or indirectly) or turns into an ice queen once he tries to escalate after revealing his interest
  • She doesn’t divulge her contact details while instead flirtatiously cajoles him into giving his first
  • She seems to have all the time in the world for others – except him, especially when he tries to close her
  • She keeps their interaction only to about herself and the amount of attention guys lavish onto her, after successfully gaining his interest
  • She clams up about her past and personal details once he tries to probe about it
  • She disappears without sex once he’s spent some resources or his time on her

Yes, those are some of the common and numerous indications that he – or even you –  could be dealing with a tease.

Cock-tease (noun, derisive sexual slang):

a woman who acts in a sexual manner to lead men to the mistaken belief that she is likely to have sexual intercourse with them,without actually fulfilling the sexual actions.

As mentioned earlier, it’s more advisable to walk away than to waste time on these women. But what must be understood is that there are different types of cock-teasers, and so are their levels of cock-teasing “game.”

Analyzing her psychology and behavior

The behavior of the cock-teaser can be efficiently interpreted as the practical demonstration of certain laws from Robert Greene’s The 48 Laws of Power – depending on her type and level. Her cock-teasing is a part of her game to gain power over the minds of her orbiters. However, one law which basically defines the core psychology of every cock-teaser is:


If you allow people to feel they possess you to any degree, you lose all power over them. By not committing your affections, they will only try harder to win you over. Stay aloof and you gain the power that comes from their attention and frustrated desire. Play the Virgin Queen: Give them hope but never satisfaction. – Law 20

The cock-teaser gives hope, but never satisfaction or gratification—in return for the attention she craves, courts or receives—since that’s the nutrition for her self-esteem. In worst cases, she’ll cock-tease to pit men against each other, while enjoying the pleasure of the attention of her orbiters whom she’ll mercilessly play with or even exploit for her aims.

Everything is judged by its appearance; what is unseen counts for nothing. Never let yourself get lost in the crowd, then, or buried in oblivion. Stand out. Be conspicuous, at all cost. Make yourself a magnet of attention by appearing larger; more colorful, more mysterious than the bland and timid masses. – Law 6


Furthermore, even if she is not a virgin’ or a queen, she often acts like one.


The way you carry yourself will often determine how you are treated: In the long run, appearing vulgar or common will make people disrespect you. For a king respects himself and inspires the same sentiment in others. By acting regally and confident of your powers, you make yourself seem destined to wear a crown. – Law 34

The cock-teaser actually manufactures or conjures up the fantasy of sex with her….


Life is so harsh and distressing that people who can manufacture romance or conjure up fantasy are like oases in the desert: Everyone flocks to them. There is great power in tapping into the fantasies of the masses. – Law 32

through compelling, selective and “generous” acts of sexual flirting or display…

Striking imagery and grand symbolic gestures mate the aura of power-everyone responds to them. Stage spectacles for those around you, then, full of arresting visuals and radiant symbols that heighten your presence. Dazzled by appearances, no one will notice what you are really doing. – Law 37


or sometimes even kindness and  affection….

One sincere and honest move will cover over dozens of dishonest ones. Open-hearted gestures of honesty and generosity bring down the guard of even the most suspicious people. Once your selective honesty opens a hole in their armor, you can deceive and manipulate them at will. A timely gift-a Trojan horse will serve the same purpose.Law 12

…effectively baiting men into believing that she would reward them with sex…

When you force the other person to act, you are the one in control. It is always better to make your opponent come to you, abandoning his own plans in the process. Lure him with fabulous gains-then attack. You hold the cards. – Law 8

yet prolongs it (indefinitely) while enjoying male attention and other benefits from men.

The best deceptions are the ones that seem to give the other person a choice: Your victims feel they are in control, but are actually your puppets. Give people options that come out in your favor whichever one they choose.- Law 31

In certain cases, she acts as a confidante, deliberately pushing herself close to men…

Knowing about your rival is critical. Use spies to gather valuable information that will keep you a step ahead. Better still: Play the spy yourself In polite social encounters, learn to probe. Ask indirect questions to get people to reveal their weaknesses and intentions. There is no occasion that is not an opportunity for artful spying. – Law 14

in reality to discover men’s weaknesses…

Everyone has a weakness, a gap in the castle wall. That weakness is usually an insecurity, an uncontrollable emotion or need; it can also be a small secret pleasure. Either way, once found, it is a thumbscrew you can turn to your advantage. – Law 33

essentially trying to prey on men’s minds and hearts, to implant herself strongly there…

Coercion creates a reaction that will eventually work against you.You must seduce others into wanting to move in your direction. A person you have seduced becomes your loyal pawn. And the way to seduce others is to operate on their individual psychologies and weaknesses. Soften up the resistant by working on their emotions, playing on what they hold dear and what they feel: Ignore the hearts and mind of others and they will grow to hate you. – Law 41


…so as to create or feed a powerful illusion of the possibility of having sex (sometimes even love) with her in men’s minds, so as to keep them psychologically attracted, attached and dependent on her presence.

To maintain your independence you must always be needed and wanted. The more you are relied on, the more freedom you have. Make people depend on you for their happiness and prosperity and you have nothing to fear: Never teach them enough so that they can do without you. – Law 11

A man’s emotional attachment is the prize which women seek. While she may not actively seek a man’s commitment (physical attachment), the cock-teaser basically thrives on male attention (psychological attachment).

Suffocate her from male attention, and see how she would (often instantaneously) change her behavior around men. But since there are different types of such women, below are mentioned some common types (some of whose traits may overlap) that men usually encounter .


Types of cock-teasers

1. Dark triad


The most dangerous type of cock-teaser, for she makes cock-teasing as a wicked art form for personal leverage. Since her cock-teasing is essentially her ‘gaming’ you to get leverage with worse outcomes for you – it’s best to stay clear of her. There are two kinds of dark triad cock-teasers: the one who has a known notch count, and the one with the unknown notch count – but both are equally dangerous.

Categorize her as either a slut or whore depending on how she would provide sex, the dark triad cock-teaser with a known notch count is usually promiscuous – and yet men are irresistibly attracted to her allure. But the years on the cock carousel have psychologically and emotionally hardened her enough to separate sex from love and commitment, so she has perfected the art of running her sales pitch on men.

2. “Virginal”

One of the worst ways a virgin could cock-tease men is by making them believe that one of them could take away her precious virginity. Reading through history, one would’ve across quite a number of such accounts where men sacrificed even their lives fighting against each other for the sake of a maiden’s hand (for the hopeful deflowering of her precious hymen subsequently in a relationship).

One red pill truth is that : the Madonnas and the Whores are the same girls – for the whore was also a virgin at one point in her life. Water takes the shape of the container it’s put in, and so is the nature of women. The virgin might actually be or remain a virgin not more so out of personal choice, but out of fear, lack of options and societal constraints—especially if she comes from a society or community where virginity is prized.

I’ve wondered how some of these virgins used to embark on their own post-marriage cock carousel, cheating on their husbands with various men, once their virginity was deflowered legally in a marriage. Felt sorry for the husbands though, for these men (often ignorant of female nature), probably thought their virgin brides would still remain virtuous later on.

3. Conservative

The conservative cock-teaser is quite similar to the virginal one. The only difference is that she is not a virgin, having lost it “honorably” within a relationship. Nevertheless, her modus operandi remains similar to the virginal cock-teaser: apart from baiting prospective sex, while the virginal type promises the prize of her virginity, the conservative type instead promises the prize of her commitment and a rewarding companionship— and both promises are flakes.

4. Relationship whore or desperate for relationship

The relationship whore cock-teases her orbiters using her “easy” reputation—just like the dark triad type. Some relationship whores actually represent the transition phase between casual sluthood and dark triad, and sometimes the emotionally hardening years on the cock carousel sometimes replaces her immature mentality with a more cunning one later on.

Sometimes a relationship whore never psychologically hardens, for she might be actually flirting to really mean her willing sexual receptivity. But a beta usually blows it up with her by investing too fast and too much of himself into his interaction with her, that she then decides to withhold sex because he’s lowered his self value and she’s getting his attention what without dishing out sex in return.

In addition, there are certain factors which support a cock-teaser’s girl game.

The factors which favor her “game”

Cock-teasers usually take advantage of certain factors, which can be neutralized by men once men understand how they work. They are:

1. Male sexual thirst


While it can propel a man into actively seeking sex, sexual thirst can also screw up his judging skills, perception, and game—thus making him lower his standards and blind him to the type of women he might be dealing with. A woman who correctly deduces the intensity of sexual thirst of the man she’s dealing with can thus choose to cock-tease him at will.

One of the greatest tests for a man when it comes with dealing with women is to emotionally detach his sexual thirst from his perception and eventual judgement of them. Difficult as it may sound, but it is an important step towards self-mastery.  Most men don’t know how to regulate sexual thirst, let alone master it.

2. Lack of game among men

As some red pillers say, game is essentially trolling women—but a part of that trolling involves either telegraphing male sexual thirst in an effective way, or sometimes camouflaging male sexual thirst altogether. Even if a man doesn’t want to have sex with the woman he’s interacting with, game knowledge will help him to understand her better, and harness his own mind and sexuality better to his own advantage.

But the man with no game doesn’t know how to deal with his sexual thirst, nor does he understand female psychology. Usually he becomes a slave to his own thirst, and eventually to women.

3. Demographics


Women are the gatekeepers of sex. In societies where men exceed women in number, such sausage-fest situations usually end up covertly in favor of women when it comes to peddling sex (even though this may not apparent at first), in spite of men being socially stronger there. With women having more sexual options and greater sexual power as compared to men in these scenarios, men then have to deal with more instances of cock-teasing from women.

4.Societal indoctrination and culture


Female hypergamy unchained is an irrefutable truth in modern societies today. With women increasingly rewarding alphas with sex first in such gyro-centric societies where women call the shots, the situation of flaking and cock-teasing would worsen even more in such societies should men exceed women in number, which would further give women an entitlement complex simply because she was born with a vagina.

Secondly, women migrating to such societies then usually get brainwashed into adopting all the undesirable traits of sluthood, whoredom, misandry and cock-teasing – which all feminism usually leads to.

Birds of the same feather flock together, and women migrating to such societies usually end up as loyal members of the same feminist herd they would be indoctrinated to be a part of, upon arrival.

Whatever men set about to impress women with, counts for nothing in the world of women. Only another woman is of importance in her world. – Esther Vilar, The Manipulated Man


Depending on your expertise at game, it’s still possible to seduce a cock-teaser. However, most of the time they are not worth the effort and time. The good old adage says “it’s always better to choose your battles wisely,” and the same applies to choosing your seductions.

Read More: 24 Signs She’s A Slut

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