It is no secret that there is a good amount of fornication between white guys and Asian women these days, and there are no signs of this trend slowing down. It’s hard to go out in a large American city nowadays and not see a white guy holding hands with an Asian girl. It’s even getting to the point where people aren’t surprised anymore if you tell them your girl is Asian, as if it’s almost slightly expected. But that doesn’t stop them from taking a second to look at you as if you’ve been infected with an incurable disease, otherwise known as yellow fever.

I am one those white guys whose immune system has been overrun by yellow fever. Yes, it is somewhat incurable. I also like to observe, listen, and attempt to understand the thought process of the mainstream. One thing I’ve learned over the years is that there is a lot of misinformation and myths associated with the white guy Asian woman saga. Here are 5 common misconceptions

1. Asian girls only hook up with white guys

If you are a white western feminist threatened by all the Asian girls taking your men, then you can relax. Most Asian girls are not interested in western men, and the ones that are also like non-white western men as well. If you are an angry white guy that thinks Asian women will love you because you are white, sorry to burst your bubble. Maybe in Korea or Japan during the 1990’s, but it’s 2014 dude. Get over yourself.

Global society has changed drastically. Everyone has high-speed internet, YouTube, and Facebook, and the world has been exposed ten times over. The truth is, guys of every color love Asian women and Asian chicks who adore western men are open to all backgrounds. Asian women often like western men because of the equal lifestyle it affords. Sure, it used to be only white guys and Asian women back in the day, but that was because they had only been exposed to white guys.

2. Asian girls hook up with creepy old white guys

Are there old guys in Thailand who have young girlfriends or old dudes in America married to some young, mail-order bride? Sure, of course there are. I’ve also seen young western women shacking up with old guys. The creepy old white guy and young Asian bride image has to stop. The reality is that there are tons of American guys in their twenties and thirties hooked up with a Japanese, Korean, or Chinese girl. Just take a stroll on a university campus and you will see a fair number of young, hot Asian women walking with their western boyfriends. The creepy old guy image is a stereotype mostly propagated by feminists.

 3. Western men think Asian women are submissive and weak

This is another absurd misconception campaigned for by young, western feminists who have become bitter from a lack of attention. Personally, I don’t think most western men think Asian girls are weak. Western women, on the other hand, just assume that all Asian women are submissive and weak and that is the only logical explanation as to why they are sought after by western men.

Let’s just set the record straight. Sure, there are some submissive Asian girls in Asia, but these aren’t usually the ones that go with western men. The Asian women I’ve met and ones that go with western men are rather polite and less dramatic, though “submissive” is the wrong word to describe them. It is this drama-free demeanor that gets them pegged by their western counterparts as being “submissive.”

 4. Asian women are just after a green card and money

Are there Asian women living in America with the hopes of securing a green card or financial security? Absolutely. Are there white, Black and Latina women shacked up with a guy right now because he has money or can help her get a job? Of course there are. So what is the difference if an Asian woman does it? At the end of the day, we live in a capitalistic system and a woman is a woman. In reality, most Asian girls are not after an American guy’s money or papers. Women from Korea, Japan, and China are some of the most sincere, selfless, non-materialistic and educated people on the planet.

5. Western men date Asian girls because they can’t get a REAL WOMAN

This one always makes me laugh. If by a “real women,” you mean having a girl put you down in front of your friends at the drop of a hat, then I don’t need a “real woman.” If you mean a chick that will stop caring about her body and looks after you settle down, then it’s not so appealing. If you mean a girl whose idea of cooking involves canned food, microwaves, and constant complaining, then I can live without a “real woman.”

Actually, western men for the most part love Asian women because they are actually women. Maybe western women should starting Asian men, since both groups love to be demanding, unappreciative, and expect too much.

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