Travel Brazil VS Denmark

February 3rd, 2013

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12 Ways Danish Women Are Different From Brazilian Women

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1. Danish girls act like guys.

After feminism had it’s big triumphant waves rinsing the Danish countryside, we were left with some excellent female friends who want to be like us. Unfortunately they threw their feminine side out in the process, cutting their hair short, burning bras, and growing distinct male characteristics. This has not happened in they same way in Brazil, where the women kept their femininity, even if they are well educated and career minded.

2. Brazilian women are clean and take showers up to 5 times a day.

Danish women only shower once a day. This has obviously something to do with the different climate, but still it’s nice to know that the “sweat spot” has been through several checkpoints during the day ;)

3. Summer dresses, high heels and bikinis are, not surprisingly, a huge part of the Brazilian wardrobe.

As a man I can only say: “It’s awesome!” In Denmark the weather doesn’t allow for such boner-pleasing outfits except for the occasional two days of summer in July, where Danish women show off their white marble columns.

4. Danish women have cold attitude.

When Danish women venture out doing their daily tasks like grocery shopping or whatnot, they grab the nearest potato sack, put in the classical white iPhone earplugs and tramp/bike down to the local supermarket with a “Don’t talk to me!” attitude. Brazilian women simply do some quick adjustments to that already perfect look in front of the mirror and slide gracefully down the sidewalk with an open minded, positive look in their eyes.

5. Brazilian people have a natural, healthy relationship with their bodies.

This makes sense in a sunny nation with an acute beach culture, but this can not be said about Danish people which has resulted in an awkward bed culture with lights off and blinds down during mechanical intercourse.

6. When asking for directions in Brazil, the women will kindly explain how to reach your destination, or even walk you some of the way.

In Denmark women will give you a suspicious look before unwillingly pulling out the earplugs to find out what your are rambling about and if you are a potential threat.

7. Brazilian women have for the most part really nice teeth.

Even if they don’t have their father’s extensive health plan coverage through Petrobraz or similar corporations, they brush their teeth 3-5 times a day and go to extreme lengths if correcting need be. Danish women brush their teeth only twice per day if you’re lucky. In addition, those straight pearls granted from above are quite random, although not as random compared to the British royal family.

8. Danish women are honest and raised with that circle pedagogy where everything should be debated in a friendly manner.

This is actually good and bad, because sometimes it’s just nice to have a good old fashion fight. Brazilians have a tendency to give white lies and are masters at yelling each other to pieces, making up afterwards with big emotions and aggressive lovemaking.

9. Small talk combined with a genuine interest in new acquaintances are some of the trademarks in Brazil.

You can in many cases walk up to almost anyone and initiate a conversation about the weather, traffic, or football without it being weird and intrusive. Needless to say you will be regarded as a pervert doing that in Denmark.

10. It takes a long time to claw down the defenses that a Danish woman surrounds herself with.

Once you are in (after one or two years), you might just have a friend for life. The same can be said of the Brazilian woman, but in addition, after ten minutes you can be kissing her like you’re a teenager again.

11. Brazilian women are jealous as hell.

If you are hoping to continue talking with your female single friends and ex-girlfriends while in a relationship with a Brazilian, which is not uncommon in Denmark, forget about it! A Brazilian woman will methodically make you go through each one of your female friends, putting you on the witness stand as she hammers down the verdict by which you are to comply.

12. Brazilians are a mixed race and you can recognize all kinds of characteristics in the faces when you walk down the street.

Out of that equation has come some of the most refined curvy women on the planet, with which Danish women simply can not compete. But, if you’re into those slim hips and boyish behinds, you will certainly not waste your time in Denmark.

There are other aspects that these twelve points don’t cover, like Janteloven (Jante Law), influence of beta and alpha males, structure of society, etc. They should be viewed as slightly caricatured observations. There is always that one exception in both cultures who doesn’t fit in here, and thank God for that.

And thank God for Brazil!

Read Next: How To Bang A Brazilian Woman In 5 Easy Steps



About the Author

is currently studying Arabic language and culture, modern history of the middle east and Islam at the university in Copenhagen. Have traveled in Egypt, Israel/Palestine, and have lived on several occasions in Brazil, mainly in Rio de Janeiro.

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  • Empty

    This is probably the most useless, vapid article ever published.

    • Ross

      It’s a man sharing his opinion, just like you.:)

      • Empty

        Nobody said otherwise.

      • Harry

        Its either a female troll or a mangina. So its no man at all

    • lester_pole

      Nothing wrong with is but your comments stink the house out.

  • RASER

    Danish girls speak English and play less games than brain-damage Brazilian girls

    • fuck you, dumb-ass.

      Really? What if I tell you that Brazilian girls can also speak English? I am a Brazilian girl, lived in Denmark for almost a year, and I can assure you that I speak better English than any danish girl, boy, transvestite or anyone born and raised in Denmark, as they usually have a strong accent and get extremely confused with the grammar.

  • corvinus

    Denmark = Eastern England.

    As with England, I imagine that were it not for booze, the race would have died out.

  • John McNeill

    The Danish girl on the left is pretty attractive. And honestly the icy personalities don’t sound much different than the girls here in Iowa.

  • Chase

    Quick question: how the hell did Nicklas Bendtner come out of the land of Jante Law?

    • lester_pole

      There is no such thing as “Jante Law”..Its just the whole world cockblocking you, like it does in every country. It’s not better or worse in Denmark

  • http://mattforney.com/ Matt Forney

    Awaiting the chorus of haters who will claim you’re just bashing Danish girls because you’re a loser who can only get laid in third-world countries… even though Brazil isn’t third world and the haters have never left the U.S.

    • Empty

      GDP per capita in Brazil: $11,640
      GDP per capita Botswana: $14,746
      GDP per capita Iran: $11,508

      GDP per capita Denmark: $40,908
      GDP per capita USA: $48,112

      Dudes definitely are finding success in Brazil because they can spend more than the local dudes, and the women know this. Western guys also know this, but won’t admit it because it destroys the fantasy that they really ARE the big bad alpha male that Western women just can’t find a way to appreciate. Acknowledging the fact that they were simply born in the right place at the right time of history would be a tacit admission that they’re no better than the lowly john buying the time of a quasi-prostitute.

      So, sorry fat man, but you’re just gonna have to accept the fact that pussy-beggars like yourself are exactly what detractors label you: losers looking to leverage money/status in countries where the competition is less intense.

      It’s like a grown man dropping out of a pick-up game against dudes his own size to go play against third graders. Look, if that’s what you wanna do, then do it. Nobody’s stopping you. However don’t come on the internet thumping your chest as if you’ve cracked the secret code to life, or act like you’re more special than anybody else. Any mediocre dude from NA and West Europe can venture to the third world and find moderate success if they stick around long enough.

      You can call me a “hater” now to assuage your narcissism now.

      • 2mques

        Lol, I don’t know why you called him fat man.

        Do you live in America?

      • doug

        @Empty

        Your argument doesn’t really hold water because American women are some of the easiest in the world. Even though they are wealthy you will not have to spend any money on them to get laid. So obviously people are going to Brazil or other countries for different reasons – perhaps the warm, feminine and sexy women?

        As for the countries you selected – Iran, Botswana, and Brazil – these are some very nice countries with educated populations and relatively wealthy as far as GDP per capita goes. For example they are over ten times wealthy than shitholes like Haiti and Afghanistan, and wealthier even than places like Ukraine, China and Thailand.

      • 2mques

        @Empty

        It’s very simple: American women aren’t likeable, they’re very fukable though.

      • Wilson

        You probably are proud of your predilection for middle-aged single moms because they are so “sophisticated”.

      • http://mattforney.com/ Matt Forney

        Ten-to-one you’re the same hater who keeps coming back here to get banned by Roosh; you make the exact same arguments again and again and again.

        And I know for a fact that you know absolutely nothing about living abroad, as evidenced by the fact that you can only speak about other countries in terms of Wikipedia stats, like the keyboard jockey that you are.

        I couldn’t care less if you call me “fat,” seeing as I’ve been striving to lose weight for months now (and have) and I just successfully hitchhiked more than 3,500 miles across the U.S. from New York to Oregon (where I was nearly killed by police, handcuffed by border patrol agents, and kidnapped, among other things), and I’ve generally seen and done more in the past year than you’ll ever accomplish in your sad, trollish little life. And “Matt Forney” is my real name, too!

        I don’t claim to be a pussy-hound or a player, though you’re welcome to project whatever fantasies you like on me. But when it comes to info, who do you think is worth trusting:

        a) An online columnist who has lived in Denmark and Brazil, has a name and a rep, and has his picture online, or;

        b) An anonymous commenter with no name, no accountability, and no life experience or evidence to back up his claims?

        Thought so.

      • http://www.saloforum.com niccolo and donkey

        Forney, stop talking about yourself. You’re a mental case and this place would be better off without your presence.

      • Anonymous

        Empty is enjoying her cats I see.

      • Kris

        Well Mr.Empty certainly knows how to argue :) and I would be inclined to agree with him if it wasn’t for the fact that: I have a Brazilian girlfriend living with me here in Denmark who absolutely agrees with me on this article, although it is somewhat exaggerated.
        The GDP argument is pretty weak, unless you go hunting in the favelas.

    • 2mques

      @Empty

      Ok I get the fat comment.

      On the other hand, If you lived in America, and you were objective, you’d realize that men aren’t traveling to third world countries merely because the women have no money. My rather successful aunt who is an entrepreneur from a third world country I might add, came to America for the first time and was asking me why I wasn’t married yet. She said that I was at an age where I should be getting married based on our culture. I giggled and said that she’d have to live here to understand why marriage wasn’t on my mind.

      Later that day, I dropped her off at the mall for a couple hours so she could go shopping. When I picked her up, she came into my car laughing hysterically. She then told me that she understood why I wasn’t enthusiastic about getting married, and proceeded to show me pictures of all the fat women she had observed in a couple hours walking around the mall buying stuff; she said she wasn’t even aware that women could become that fat and she was going to show all the pictures to her friends when she got back home. She had at least 20 pictures and this is the state of Mass., one of the thinner states in the country.

      • 2mques

        Except, you just used a straw man fallacy to back up what you just said. No one ever said that America doesn’t have hot women.

        We could go on, but it’s clear that you don’t want to be objective or intellectually honest; and look, if I had a pu$$y that I could use to leverage most guys into submitting to my own POV on reality, I probably would see no necessity in being objective either.

      • half caste

        Chasin down poor 3rd world pussy feels dirty n disgustinf like iran(its prettty poor)ukraine is richer just infrastructure sux an weather is depresin.but broke girls in decolped countrys like vbrazil is fine…nsouth is heavily devolped while north is lil shawty but devolpin fast
        like to see a comparison of slavic women with otjer women

      • Chase

        “So many fat females in America” =/= No attractive women in America. If there were two lotteries with the same jackpot and you had to buy a ticket to one of them which one you choose? The one with 1/10 odds or the other with 1/100 odds?

        You’re also misunderstanding that notch count isn’t the end all, be all of this site. This site is actually promoting lower notch counts with higher quality women, and the odds of finding these higher quality women are better outside the western world.

      • 2mques

        Yes, you’re male but you have a pu$$y POV, which is worse…I’d have more respect for you if you were a woman.

        Also you are once again using a straw man argument because I never pronounced my philosophy, nor did I declare a world view in any of my comments. You’re creating your own points, saying that I made them and then attacking me on those points.

        However the point of calling someone out on logical fallacies is to point out contradictions in reasoning, not to label someone else as an idiot or a hypocrite; which is why I said you lack intellectual honesty (you don’t want to have an intellectual debate). Clearly, you don’t like Roosh and others; clearly you are sympathetic and agree with the women who “call him out” i.e. feminists, who I generally refer to as people who have a pu$$y POV.

        As for the reason why men are going to Brazil, I gave you my answer above, and I’ll repeat it again: “It’s very simple: American women aren’t likeable, they’re very fu*kable though” being fat is just a part of it.

        And for the record did you just use the word “chump?” My God, what a passive aggressive douche.

      • Reemee

        Iran!? You’d have better luck in India. At least in Mumbai there are some decent night clubs were singles can mingle.

      • half caste

        @renee
        even india ..chase 3rd world girls not my thing feel like im takin advantage of national geographic.. But broke in good nations in eastern europe an latin america is where its at.
        Besides latin girls dont have cultural hang up like mena and south asian nations,thy have better looks n curves an not hairy like middle eastern n desi girls

      • Reemee

        “even india ..chase 3rd world girls not my thing feel like im takin advantage of national geographic”

        LOL!

        ” But broke in good nations in eastern europe an latin america is where its at.”

        There are more rich people in India than in EE or LA.

        Besides at the clubs in Mumbai I’m talking about, only upper middle class people go there. You wouldn’t be taking advantage of national geographic. They’d be feeling sorry FOR YOU.

      • Anonymous

        @remmee
        still they have that 3rd worldesqay about them
        like puttin a caveman in a suit…somethin dirty about those girls like aids malaria o some shit like that…country is devolopin cant help but feel like a sex tourist i n thailand
        besides we get indian international students at my campus an they aint hot but the ones born here …much better….an those are upper middle class comin here…not every person from that class will look like bollywood

  • anon1

    >Kris is currently studying Arabic language and culture, modern history of the middle east and Islam at the university in Copenhagen.

    Now THIS, is something i’d like to read an article on. we all know how great brazil is, and don’t need another one on the subject.

    Are arabs a patriarchal culture. is it possible to be red pill and muslim?

    Or is it more off a clash of civilsations type deal

    • anon1

      full disclosure: my family on fathers side are ismaili indian. mum is irish

    • Reemee

      Arabs are patriarchal. Depends on what you mean by red pill on whether or not they will swallow it. Amongst Arab devout and orthodox Muslims, they are unwilling to swallow any harsh truths about their religion. But this goes for most religious nuts. They can’t see the forest for the trees.

      • half caste

        Theyd only swallow when it comes to western women.someone on the manospee was sayin at least islam respects men an keeps the natural order goim…while xhristianity is feminized an blames men..mainly in the west…not the case in georgia armenia n italy
        Naughtynoomad an Erd milenuin men link soomewhere…dunnnobhe site for the respect part though..oit was a red pill site

      • Reemee

        There are so many more religions than Islam and Christianity to choose from. Neither Islam nor Christianity has a developed philosophy. They are shallow and were created by low IQ people without an abundance of natural resources like water and food. Hence brains were not very developed. Multi generational cousin marriage does not help either.

        The West’s metaphysical future lies with Buddhism.

      • half caste

        @renee
        Cousin marrage across the globe needs to go
        budhism quite deep indeed well except for the monks an other people in myanmar/burma
        Otherwise sinless followrrs

      • J.M.

        How low in the IQ score does one need to be to accept an inferior culture and religion that has produced no advancement in the history of mankind, just good “feeeelings”?

      • J.M.

        And that comment was about budhism, practically an anti-patriarchal culture, that due to its inferior and semi-matriarchal tendencies, is one of the most easily accepted by females.

      • Anonymous

        @JM
        true..dat
        least islam created stuff durin its golden age and at least it respects men it has patricheal culture that keeps the social order(women always want everything an still be unsatisfied…kids is what keeps theri hamster busy)
        now 60 yrs of feminism now we got population aging and crazy datin culture
        kids born outta wedlock raised by single mothers and those kids usually have some sorta issue , get inot trouble do drugs more likly to be overwieght(mom isn there all the time)
        the old family dynamic with dad takin an active role was ideal when women became aggressive …men started wlalkin away

    • Kris

      I am going to spend March and April in Beirut, so I will be doing an article on some of the things you’ve mentioned. As for arabs being a patriarchal culture, only the few would disagree with that. The whole red pill blue pill issue is something that I feel does not apply for many muslims living in europe, but I think the term should be defined better, before having a discussion about it.

  • Ninja Man

    I agree, you can quite easily replace the word Denmark with British and the article would still remain relevant.
    Not an enlightening article, however, theres nothing wrong with being reminded that such character traits exists in women from different parts of the world, making choosing correct travel destinations a no brainer!

  • le tigre MD

    @ empty

    I agree with your general sentiment that Roosh’s success overseas is largely due to increased relative money and status, rather than “game.” Though I do think the mechanics of game help increase quantity, but passive things like money and status and looks determine quality.

    I think “game” is very misunderstood. If you read Bang, you see that Roosh basically is explaining how to talk to women, and the simple logistics of getting her into your bed. I hesitate to call this “game.” It’s just socialization and having the basic ability to relate to people and model their behavior. People tend to blow this ability way out of proportion, when it really is nothing special. They tend to overattribute their success to game, and underattribute to passive characteristics like looks, money, and status. It’s a way of bragging, of flashing the e-peen, I suppose.

    Roosh is correct that women overseas in South America and FSU countries tend to be more approachable and feminine. This is because the gender ratios are more favorable toward men, and women make less money than their male counterparts, making them reliant on provider men. The situation is reversed in America. Men are plentiful with no wars or famine to wipe them out, and women make enough money to support themselves comfortably. They are holding out for the high genetic value guys when they are young and under 25 (good-looking, tall) or elite providers when 25+ (250k+ income, doctor/law partner/finance types) that can elevate them and their spawn in social class. The value of women in America is extremely high, and feminine and sexy women command high market value. You need to be a high value guy here, either in status, or money, or extremely good looks, to get the best women.

    I think Roosh’s Galt approach does work, and may be one of the better strategies for average men if they want romantic success. But ultimately expatriating from your country, from your own culture and all the people you know and love, is not a happy solution to the problem.

    Remember, studies of mitochondrial DNA have shown that through most of human history, half of men never got to reproduce. It’s always been a struggle. Average guys were never supposed to get women. If they did, they did well. Women have always been the domain of the high value guys.

    • Chase

      PUA culture has led to more genuine self betterment among men than any other self help wave in history.

      You continue to dwell on this straw man that it is easier to get laid in “third world countries” when no one has ever said that at all; to the contrary in fact. If notch count was everything, none of these “famous” PUAs would ever leave USA/England/The West. Those who have absorbed the idea of “rape culture” so much cannot get over the fact that some men might want to fuck hotter women or more women. How dare they want to fuck women! That shouldn’t be what being a man is about! DON’T YOU DARE TELL ME WHAT BEING A WOMAN IS ABOUT THOUGH!

      If you can get past your bullshit preconceptions you’ll realize that ROK is focused more on an idea of finding happiness in “higher quality” women. The idea is that “higher quality” is going back to a standard that was in place 50+ years ago and maybe this isn’t the way to happiness at all. However these guys got off their asses and in EVERY SINGLE CASE they threw away the guaranteed weekly lay in their home country, which was metaphysically unsatisfying, and traveled the globe to seek something that actually makes them happy.

      At ROK, the ability to have a lot of sex partners is assumed. THIS BLOG is not about scoring more sex partners. It is occasionally about increasing the variety of one’s sex partners, but you seem to totally dismiss that as a complete waste of time. I guess if you idiots can’t admit that men and women are different you will never get around to admitting that products of different cultures are different. But again, this is not about having more sex. That you can do that is assumed. This blog is about options, and the option it encourages is actually having FAR LESS partners, but going to a culture in which the women have less partners, in the broader goal of achieving satisfaction in with one’s life.

      • https://twitter.com/Teedub_5 Teedub

        Well said.

    • lester_pole

      @Empty
      Even if everything you say is true whats the problem ? Women in the West leverage their inflated value to ride the high horse..men use their ,money to ride the high horse, where ever their money is worth more. Women in the west are simply using this kind of shaming tactics to discourage men and eliminate competition.
      The western woman is extremly arrogant and in behavior vicious toward 90% of all men. Why is it so hard to understand that some men like to go where the grass is greener ?

    • lester_pole

      Its true that having more money makes it easier for a man traveling to Brazil or Poland. But that’s not the entire story. The polish girls are nice even if you have no money. They are family oriented meaning you can actually start a family with a young women, instead of the used up 35+ cock carousel riders we have here in the western countries. Men simply go where women are friendly, feminine and reliable. It’s not even important that their are easy to bed because that’s not what matters.

  • Chase

    Yeah, where are your citations to all the peer reviewed scholarly articles about how Danish women are different from Brazilian women.

  • http://dannyfrom504.wordpress.com dannyfrom504

    it’s a latin thing. i’m mexican and cajun. there’s a reason i prefer mexicanas, they are VERY feminine. the above description can be applied to all the latin countries i’ve lived in or visited. lived in spain and italy and the above could be applied to the local girls.

    swear to god, in italy i fell in love every 10 minutes. had 2 LTR’s with local girls- almost married one. and girl didn’t care if i stared or noticed other girls. but i KNEW that if i messed around. DEE-ZAM!!!!

    but since the girls were so giving, nurturing, and feminine- i didn’t WANT to mess around. i was content.

    • half caste

      Noticed in europe that south side and east side its femine.but northetn n western europe gets more masculine women

  • Joe Silva

    You think nice girls in Ipanema have boyfriends who make $10K a year ? hahaha !
    Rio and São Paulo are more expensive than any American city. Salaries are higher here than on the US for the same function. Tons of Europeans are coming to Brazil to work.
    Unless you go to the poor countryside of the Northeast, to meet ugly women, you will be the poor dude here.

    • Phil

      True. Brazil has middle class people, wealthy people, and super wealthy people. This notion that Brazil is all poor is total nonsense.

  • Natalia

    I’m a girl from Brazil, and the author is totally right (about brazilian, I don’t know danish), especially about #11, haha!

    About #12, yes, it’s right. But the more north you go in Brazil, the more dark faces (and features) you’ll see, the more south, the more european faces will be.

    Brazil is very mixed race, but not in away that turns all people alike. I mean, in Colombia or Venezuela are mixed race too, but all population in both seems to have the same features. Here in Brazil, some people are very different from people in their own family!

  • J. Flores

    Empty is Megaton. Got it.

    “There are three kinds of lies: lies, damned lies, and statistics.” – Mark Twain

    When looking at GDP in the US, where income inequality is among the highest, it’s very misleading to discuss access to cash money in those terms.

    Empty really fails to understand that the entire ’1st, 2nd 3rd world country’ concept has too many problems to use coherently (city/country and core/periphery’ discourse might be better), but let’s note here that enough people have dealt with any number of the fallacies in this method of categorization. Just google those terms and read some stuff if its interesting to you.

    Some of these problems with the ’1st world/3rd world’ concept have to do with income inequality and also PPP, puchasing power parity. They also have to do with quality of life factors which aren’t counted for much in the so-called 1st world countries precisely because they are so lacking. These have to do with hours worked, housing costs relative to food costs and income, quality of friends, the amount of free time, and the lack of credit/debt slavery.

    Let’s face it, most women don’t understand money the same way men do. On average they can’t understand or visualize the abstract concepts of ‘flow’, ‘amortization’, ‘scale’ and other key concepts relating to spatial and abstract thinking.

    Women on average understand ‘things’, ‘products’. What you can put into their hands. In Serbia, with a nominal GDP of 5k and a relative PPP GDP of 11k, an amazing phone plan with nearly unlimited data on a sexy 4G phone is about 12 euros a month. The top end HTC phone with a large touch-sceen display is included.

    Women also aren’t car experts. A very sexy and clean 2003 model year car (5 series BMW etc.) that’s got racing or crusiing rims, tint, touches of carbon, and a little dropped looks like some very brand-new and very DHV to the average woman.

    Point here is that many many Serbian guys can meet the lifestyle expectations of even a greedy-ish Serbian woman. Especially if his goal is raw ‘game’ and numbers or even quality team building with no real strongs. Foreigners don’t exactly have an advantage in raw economics of the woman’s perception.

    Countries like Serbia have tons of engineers, dentists, doctors, government bureaucrats, and even more entrepreneurs owning several small businesses, and able to build quite nice and large homes 20 kilometers outside of Belgrade. They inherited a communist culture which actually valued these things. Now that these have been unleashed into the open market, a lot of human potential has been unleashed too.

    But let’s grant that in many parts of the world there is still the post WWII era mentality that Americans are prosperous and high status by virtue of their Americaness. After all, female desires and wants are at least as much fueled by perception as they are by reality.

    However, women in a lot of countries seem interested in practically ANY foreign guy regardless of any GDP (non)correlation, unless that country is a culturally embedded ‘enemy’ nation.

    America is often one such enemy nation. And while there’s definitely a thin line – if any – seperating prostitutes from ‘regular’ women along a spectrum of sex-motivators, lots of ROK readers are looking for or have found high quality stable life partners in other countries, even fi the shoter-term or long-term goal is serial monogamy or team building. Despite their Americaness at times as much as because of it.

    This has to do with cultural attitudes which are prevalent in lots of places which do not suffer from the sort of Imperial Ego that 1st world men and women, especially Americans, have.

    Truth be told, women in other countries were raised differently, grew up around different types of men and women who had different *preoccupations*, not just different occupations.

    The point here is that charts showing GDP might help us demonstrate that there is a material foundation to this perception among foreign women, except that there isn’t. There is, practically speaking, just the perception.

    Fine, but now this is making lots of presumptions about the culture and attitudes of foreign women which have not yet been really examined.

    On top of that there is an interest in foreigners for their foreigness. This has to do with a combination of biological factors which indicate a woman’s attraction to foreign-ness and mystery as a category, and an open-ness to foreigners that isn’t straddled with xeno-phobic or out-right racist conceptions that many anglo-american women have regarding ‘foreigners’.

    Many of these are probably rooted in US’s history of slavery and west-ward expansion. Propertied white families in the west also have the most to lose, economically and in the power/prestige hierarchy in relation to the Jones’s if their white daughter runs of with some filthy Paki or Sand-nigger. So the idea that Pakis are filthy and so on is imbedded deep into the western white woman’s psyche.

    For ‘women of color’ or other ethnic origin who become assimilated into the US’s cultural (and feminist) paradigm, there is an internalized hatred of men who are also from their own, or other, national or ethnic origin. For Latinos and Blacks, this happens when they ‘pull themselves out of the ghetto’. They become potential, albeit temporary, bed-chamber mistresses for in-the-box thinking betas who have alpha-like qualities in sole sphere of income. Fast-forward 2-7 years, then they serve divorce papers.

    There is also a deep anti-intelletualism among Americans, especially women. This makes them much less interesting, and also a little harder to chat up unless the conversation is kept super basic or cliche. After all, they have few things to chat about.

    I really enjoy the entire process of seduction, and I just personally find the women of the Balkans and the MIddle-East to be better human beings. The men, like their fathers and brothers, are often better human beings too. This isn’t genetic, its cultural.

    Far from being a ‘player’ with some grandeous illusion that I had any ‘game’ which – fine – is a marketing buzz word, I knew exactly what in the US it was about me that women liked. I appear young, I’m confident, talkative but not blabby, covered in tattoos, and I hit the gym. I drove a hot Lexus and I had a lot of hot ex-girlfriends on display on my FB pics or was able to include in conversations as DHV’s.

    I’m open minded and I actually care about people. I don’t see women as opponents or ‘bad people’, but I am aware of some very real gender differences which stem from a number of biological and cultural determinants.

    I’m not tall, I’m not anglo, I don’t come from an established Polo wearing east-coast family with property in the Hamptons or a summer house in Martha’s Vineyard.

    But I could always put a little work into it and build a good team when I wasn’t in a committed monogomous deal. Wasn’t opposed to those either. I was never into numbers since swallowing the Red Pill, I handled the numbers thing in my teens and 20′s when handling 6′s and 7′s (and the occasional 5 that you told no one about) was still fun.

    Team building – because in my experience sex improves as the sex continues and the friendship builds – was a better goal. I had variety, and quality, with the right balance of familiarity and comfort-zone. Sure I might tangle the prospect of something more serious in front of them. But I wasn’t lying either. With the quality of women in my team I had developed, the chance with any of them was more probable than just even. Until I swallowed the red pill.

    The fundmental problem with my American team was their Americaness. I had some pretty great team members that had urban, alternative, or post-modern ideas about what constituted an Alpha. Sure they were hypergamous. Women are. And sure I make in the mid-to-high 5 figures which is enough nowadays, given the US situation, to be seen as a really viable candidate. But just appearing like someone who was particularly violence prone and marginalized, while having a warm heart and cash, was enough for most city dwelling american women to bone. They liked me for the wrong reasons, and I knew it.

    What Empty Megaton fails to really understand is that ROK brings together a lot of different perspectives from a number of different men in their dating experience. Its hard to even characterize it as a PUA website, because its really just filling in the void that magazines like GQ and Maxim created when their editorial perspective became increasingly feminized.

    Reading Maxim articles about how to please a woman gets really old. Its Beta world too. What about an article about what men want from women, or how to get into women’s hearts and minds without just buying them stuff or buying into the dominant femanesthesized narrative? Reading GQ articles about which products to buy in order to ‘look desirable’ to women just strikes me as a perpetual incarnation of the old Bernayean stuff we’ve been force fed for decades, both trad-con and fem-conned.

    What also got me about what Empty Megaton said was crap about IQ. It is granted IQ correlates with modernization and industrialization, but the arrow of causation seems to show us that as modernization and industrialization are introduced, IQ rises. On top of that its known to anyone from the western world that its possible to ‘study for’ an IQ test in more ways than one.

    I live in Serbia now which has an average IQ of 89. Yeah, I was drawn by the women. If you like Russian/Slavic AND Mediterranean/Iranic types in the same place and sometimes in the same woman, then Serbia is for you. At the same time, I haven’t met a single idiot who would strike me as a Forest Gump type. The 9 point difference in spread between Serbia and the US is hard to attribute to brain drain. Everywhere I turn I meet lots of brilliant people. And what does IQ indicate anyhow?

    My IQ is in the bottom of the 99th percentile, but this hasn’t made me a million bucks or motivated me to ‘succeed’ in life in ways dictated by US culture. I certainly was much less interested in ‘success’ when I saw what ‘success’ did to people like my father, who were eaten away alive by workaholism and an entitled ex-wife, and the sad paradigm-trapped idea that he had to replace the old wife with a new wife. There went my inheritance.

    For me, success and the application of my IQ has taken the form of life-style perfection, which includes doing business, but isn’t enslaved to it.

    Now living in a post-communist society which is much more business friendly than the US, for small to medium sized businesses, I’m able to put ‘that part’ of my brain to use. Corruption is managable because its so popular and localized.

    The women here are extremely fit, unbelievably beautiful – 35-50 9-10′s every time you leave your flat (I counted with a clicker a few times) with absolutely graceful and charming personalities, outlooks, passions, and dreams.

    Finally, Empty Megaton’s ‘arguments’ are out of scope and entirely off point.

    The real question is why so many men find foreign women more desirable. It isn’t mostly because they are desired by them, though certainly this is part of it. Empty also makes the mistake of equating income with desirability. This is true universally in the same way that all women have vaginas, but to varying degrees. Some pussy is tighter than others. Some women, regardless of factors like age and class of parents, see income as a determinant of desirability in differernt ways.

    Women like to have a little bragging rights about their boyfriend. They want to say where he comes from, what he’s doing now, and where he’s going. If he’s from another country, that makes the story more interesting. But that country could be the US, or Mexico, or Brazil, or even Cuba. Its not so important if that other country is wrongly associated with prosperity per se.

    If that weren’t true, EACH 8+ woman on earth would run away from home and become a prostitute in the west or Japan. So many thousands do, sure. But so many millions upon millions do not. That’s an extreme way to show that lots of other factors go into a given woman’s decision making process. Being close to family, friends, and having values not seen in the US for 40-50 years are a big part of it. Lot’s of guys seeking sex and/or romance in other countries have absolutely NO problem at home. They just can’t stand American women and their attitude and familial problems.

    Let’s say I wanted to get married some day, have a kid or something. I certainly sure as hell would never do it in the US or any country with family law that resembled the US’s.

    But fine, let’s say I get a great lawyer to design a great pre-nup. Let’s say I choose the ‘right kind’ of American woman since NAWALT. I am good at telling people, so let’s rely on that. This is still going to be a woman who is going to have dumbshit american women friends even if she’s smart, a dumbshit American family even if she’s in love with me, and dumbshit pressures and expectations which are way out of line from my own. Women are comformists, so if the culture is totally ill, even the ‘best’ of American women will ultimately become ill.

    Then there’s the schools, the TV shows, and all the toxins, carcinogens, pollutants, and mandatory vaccinations and ‘school/behavioural performance’ drugs your American kids will be subject to. That has to be a form of child abuse and neglect unto its own.

    Why do men prefer ‘foreign’ women? This isnt’ the 60′s-80′s anymore where even every arab oil baron thinks the US barbie-blonde are the end-all-be-all and is willing to travel to the US to bag one or 1000. Even Arab guys are prefering their native Haifa Wehbe’s, Nancy Ajram’s and Amar’s over the worn-out prematurely aging US ‘blonde’ windbags anyhow.

    Its because on average the ‘foreign’ one is in better shape, has a better mentality, and tends to be just a pleasure ot be around.

    Without romanticizing, othering, or falling for ‘noble savage’ discourse; people, like all products, from different places are actually different.

    American women are an inferior product. A whole lot of different reasons are involved in why a ‘foreign’ woman is able or likely to be into a guy who is foreign to her. These are not necessarily or even mainly economic, even if they do have a lot to do with status as understood in different ways.

    GDP tells us so very little, American women are very different from foreign women, and Empty Megatron so widely misses the point.

    • Reemee

      ” Being close to family, friends, and having values not seen in the US for 40-50 years are a big part of it.”

      Values like what – having 1 night stands with foreign PUAs?

      A woman close to her family and with “values not seen in the US” will not do this. They might slowly befriend, get to know and date a foreign man over the period of a couple of months, if their family approves of him, but you won’t find those women trolling bars looking to get “picked up”.

      And this site is not about “dating” over a period a months. Its about getting laid as fast as you can. Let me assure you that any woman who sleeps with you soon is NOT the “family oriented woman with values” that you write about above.

      ” Lot’s of guys seeking sex and/or romance in other countries have absolutely NO problem at home. They just can’t stand American women and their attitude and familial problems.”

      That’s fine. But again, those sex seeking guys should not delude themselves into thinking the foreign women they have easy sex with are “family oriented, high quality women with values”.

    • Phallus of Doom

      Lmao @ anybody who spent time reading this epic hamster spinning.

      • Reemee

        So what are you saying? This blog IS about dating and long term relationships? Women who have ONSs are not sluts?

      • brazilian with poor english

        yes. this the biggest comment on a blog i have see on my entire life.

    • half caste

      @flores
      nnot all foreign women are in better shape than usa women. Arabian women have highrr obeisty rate since its the standard of beauty around the gulf even north africa has manyy chubby chasers(egypt morocco libya etc)iraq afghanistan bangladesh an pacific islands also perfer fat women an theyre obeisty is highet than usa.appatenty for 1 obese man u see in saudi ull see 2 or 3 obese women…plus they not good at metabolizin weight(prolly adaptation to dessert) even indian women have problem with weight after the first kid…they get bigger than husband…only asians slavic an latin girls seem to stay slim for whatever reason….cia world factbook to look up obeisty by nation

  • https://twitter.com/Teedub_5 Teedub

    @Chase ^

    • Reemee

      Cognitive Dissonance: thinking an American woman is an easy slut for sleeping with you on the first or 2nd date while a foreign woman is a “feminine high quality woman of conservative values” for doing exactly the same.

      • J.M.

        Well, I have to say Reemee that you are correct, it seems like some of us have a rationalization hamster. Maybe that’s why Roosh, subconsciously, chooses not to have a long relationship with them. By the way I admire his writings and have helped a long way, but he commits this rationalization in most of his writings.

  • Tom Dane

    I wonder if this is written by “Henrik”

  • lizardhunter

    You can get laid easily in Brazil, but not because of money, more because of your exotic European look…and not with the best girls. The competition for the hottest girls is more intense than in Western Europe or the US. The SWPL and beta factor is restrained. You have a bunch of guys with ripped, tanned bodies, who do martial arts, and have good game. Hot girls from the good neighborhoods are not going to pick you over them just because you have some dollars (probably less than the girls who live in these neighborhoods have) or because you can speak English. In Rio you actually have very intense competition, which is why it’s a good training ground.

    • brazilian with poor english

      Roosh doenst have a “exotic European look”. He seems more a typical white guy from São Paulo or
      South.

  • http://www.percyruxman.com Ruxman

    Now I want to go to Brazil

  • http://howtobecomeanalphamale.com alpha male

    ‘In Denmark women will give you a suspicious look before unwillingly pulling out the earplugs to find out what your are rambling about and if you are a potential threat.’

    sounds like Parisian people

  • Will I Am

    This is so True. And only people who experienced the 2 cultures will understand that. It’s just an opinion anyway. You may or may not agree with it.

  • Richard W1

    at least you’re unlikely to get a gun shoved in your face in Denmark…. with the debt levels in the US under President O’Buck Banger….. pretty much the entire American continent looks set to become lost in the mire……good luck in Latin America, you’re welcome to it and it’s Matriarchal sexy honey traps……..

  • http://www.facebook.com/diorgenes.vieiraribeiro Diórgenes Vieira Ribeiro

    HELLO CRIS. DO NOT KNOW YOUR NATIONALITY BUT SEEMS YOU KNOW VERY WELL on Danish Girls. I know and I tried to be a friend of a Danish girl, but it was very difficult. And when I told him my age I was 10 years older than her. She was in shock.! behaved as if I were a psychopath Or pervertido.por be 10 years older than her HERE IN BRAZIL kept friendship with Brazilian women from across the country without any problems. WHY our girls are open and easy to relate to. I really think the girls Danes have a pretty face, but unfortunately they think too complicated. Not because I’m Brazilian, because I lived in European countries. But the most beautiful face and body that Brazilian girls for me has no place better than no.mundo Brazilian girls. Brazilian Girls I Love I live here in the middle of them and I’m in heaven. God blessed this country

  • Anonymous

    this is the most stupidest thing i’ve ever read
    -sincerely, brazilian-danish girl

  • Anonymous

    this is the most stupidest thing i’ve ever read
    -sincerely, brazilian-danish girl

  • Priscilla Lopes d El Rei

    Hi Kris,
    I found very interesting to know that someone made ​​a comparison between Brazilian women and Danish women. Of course it is an empirical personal view and based on a limited number of Brazilian and Danish women you have found.
    I must also say, that as a Brazilian girl I do not agree with everything that you written.
    Anyway, I accept most of the claims as a compliment. :-)

  • dan

    Man whats with your war on the danes man? my experience danes just really arent into americans, the moment i said i was canadian instead i got way better results.

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