Arthur Schopenhauer, the great German philosopher, conservative and instructive read for all red pill men, said:
…the fundamental fault in the character of women is that they have no “sense of justice.” This arises from their deficiency in the power of reasoning and reflection, but is also partly due to the fact that Nature has not destined them, as the weaker sex, to be dependent on strength but on cunning; this is why they are instinctively crafty, and have an ineradicable tendency to lie. For as lions are furnished with claws and teeth, elephants with tusks, boars with fangs, bulls with horns, and the cuttlefish with its dark, inky fluid, so Nature has provided woman for her protection and defense with the faculty of dissimulation, and all the power which Nature has given to man in the form of bodily strength and reason has been conferred on woman in this form.
Hence, dissimulation is innate in woman and almost as characteristic of the very stupid as of the clever. Accordingly, it is as natural for women to dissemble at every opportunity as it is for those animals to turn to their weapons when they are attacked; and they feel in doing so that in a certain measure they are only making use of their rights. Therefore a woman who is perfectly truthful and does not dissemble is perhaps an impossibility. This is why they see through dissimulation in others so easily; therefore it is not advisable to attempt it with them. From the fundamental defect that has been stated, and all that it involves, spring falseness, faithlessness, treachery, ungratefulness, and so on.
Contemporary heterosexual dating in America demonstrates just how right the great thinker was. In the past two months I have been on seven dates. This resulted in three bangs, all on the first night. Not bad numbers, I guess, but no one with much experience with American women these days will be surprised to learn that out of the four women who weren’t interested in me, only one could be bothered to respond to my calls and texts. Nor is it a coincidence that she was not an American.
I had been a gentleman from beginning to end. Common courtesy—or basic human decency—would therefore dictate that these women were obliged to respond to me with something like: “Thanks for the drinks, but I just didn’t feel a connection. Good luck and take care.” It’s not at all pleasant, of course, to tell someone that, but it is the right thing to do, and a minor inconvenience that takes all of about 30 seconds. Still, contemporary American woman, no matter how well you’ve treated them, have very little sense of justice. And the rare exceptions—distinguished female lawyers, for instance—tend to be strikingly masculine, and thus quite unattractive.
Many men have noticed that while attractive American women expect us to do all sorts of things for them—pay for dates, buy their drinks, shell out for their birthday, for Valentine’s Day, for Christmas, and on and on—very few of these women are inclined to do anything for us. They don’t know how to cook, nor do they want to cook for us. I have often noticed that even when they go dutch on a date, a feeling of resentment is subtly evident from their body language. Given their perverse self-interest and sense of entitlement, it simply doesn’t occur to them that they should do something for you in return for what you have done for them. In spite of feminism, things should not be fair or complimentary. You owe them—end of story.
I have had the following experience with countless American women, in situations both where I was already hooking up with them and only pursuing them. We’ve been exchanging texts. She’s answered each one within a few minutes. Then I say something like, “So, want to grab a drink Friday night?” And I am met with silence. Now if I say to a buddy, “Hey, what’s up with hanging out tomorrow night?” he will usually let me know—he won’t just leave me hanging. But even if you’re a high value guy, American women often have no sense of propriety here. For them, the brief awkwardness of saying “I’m busy” or “I don’t want to hang out” is not outweighed by the feeling that they should show a little respect to a guy who’s not only giving them awesome orgasms, but treating them pretty well.
Men should, however, understand that from puberty until they near middle age, all women who are even mildly attractive live under the almost constant and overwhelming gaze of men. Wherever they go—school, work, the supermarket, the cafe, the bar—they encounter men who want to sleep with them, and the age of texting and social media makes this even more intense. As a result, it becomes natural for women to regard men like insects in summer: we are pesky creatures to shoo away (to flake on) whenever women are not in the mood for our attention.
Yet on the whole, women are endlessly fickle and capricious; their analytical powers—such as they are—don’t come with much steadiness or backbone. Letting people know where they stand, like notions of honor and obligation, are often no more than inconveniences to be shrugged off. It is for the same reasons that women tend to be so ungrateful and disloyal.
To a man—that is to say, a rational and analytical being—it would seem, on the face of it, that treating women with respect—your dealings with them being governed by justice and honor—would lead to success with them. But as every American man who isn’t stupid or a pussy eventually learns, this is far from true. There are very few American women who won’t burn you if you take this dangerous approach, and the exceptions are mostly fat chicks, who, you better believe it, would be entitled, ungrateful cunts if only they could.
It is because they have inferior minds and little sense of justice that the words of American women are so often meaningless and contrary to what they actually want. For example, when they say they want a “nice guy,” what they really mean is one who will spend money on them, realizing their deep sense of entitlement. If you think otherwise, I encourage you to be that nice guy in the sweet, emotional way, and see how that goes for you. If they were straightforward, they’d simply say: “I want a guy who will spend money on me,” but here, of course, is where they employ their well-known talents for cunning and dissimulation.
If you’ve ever caught a woman lying, you were perhaps struck by the uncanny skill and nonchalance with which she did so. While they have a deserved reputation for being the illogical sex, women may be recognized for their superior ability to manipulate others, especially men. Of course, any sense of justice is no obstacle here.
I have known many American women whose friends were mostly men. These women, unusually smart and rational for their sex, all told me that they couldn’t stand other women, owing to all the drama, cattiness, petty resentments, and so on. So they hung out with men. Of course, the latter were mostly betas who really just wanted to get laid. But they are blameworthy only for allowing themselves to be friend zoned; after all, most American women aren’t good for anything besides opening their legs, though one hopes that feminist cattle might soon be used to improve our lagging agriculture industry.
Since, then, this is how most attractive American women are, how shall a man act toward them? In the first place, apply that leading principle from the manosphere: be aloof and show little or no emotion. Be sure also not to expect any gratitude or decency from them. Because, as Schopenhauer pointed out, women are deficient in the power of reasoning, with very little sense of justice, it is a grave mistake to expect rational and fair behavior from them, even when you yourself have been eminently so.
Don’t be fooled either by women who seem to be very nice or different from most. Most likely, the exception won’t last. If you don’t keep up a certain emotional reserve, your kindness will lead to pain: all of a sudden, she won’t be such a sweetheart anymore, but will prove to be unaccountably selfish and false, aided by a remarkable talent for rationalization that can only leave you bewildered and bitter. For it cannot be stopped by man, neither does it make sense. You need to keep women feeling that they have not got “all” of you emotionally, because this is the only way to control them: through the mind, making them pursue what they don’t have.
You cannot take too much shit from women; still, you must let a lot of their nonsense go: if you call out every hotty for every little thing, you won’t even get that many bangs in before you have to replace her with another lovely little vampire. I used to call out women for flaking. I found it usually led only to more flaking. So now I just wait things out, resolving with each fresh flake to be smarter and stronger than women and not let them get the best of me. Here it helps always to be working on several at once. You cannot count on a single woman—or for that matter, any woman—but when juggling several it will usually happen that you pay less attention to the less attractive ones: these, then, will tend to go crazy for you, at your call when the 8s and up flake. And in short, having a rotation of women will keep you from paying much attention to one. This is excellent in these dismal days when the more aloof you are the better, especially when dealing with stunners.
Whether you are monogamous or a player, calling out American women requires great subtlety: you must be commanding yet terse; get in and get out. Let her see where you stand, then show her, by having a take her on your own terms or leave her attitude, that you won’t go for any drawn-out drama: otherwise there may be no end to the thing (besides her mirror, she lives for just that), and in her delusional narcissism she will get fed up, and stroke her hamster rationalizing: “I’m not gonna settle for this asshole. I’m gonna do me now!” (What had she been doing all along?) Indeed, if you call her out in just the right way, she will be extremely turned on. The reason is that American women are deeply twisted and have a perverse desire to be emotionally tortured, which corresponds to their desire to be dominated in bed (and note that here the career-type, or “strong and independent woman,” is no exception—she is actually one of the most sexually submissive type of women around). In fact, it is because American women have it too good that so many of them are drawn to assholes. Being psychologically askew, they require men to treat them like shit in order, perversely, to balance out their self-important, princess mentality. It is as if human nature itself punishes them for being out of whack.
Finally, every player must be willing to apply these words from Nietzsche’s Thus Spake Zarathustra: “Thou goest unto the women? Remember thy whip!” Just make sure it’s a strong one. These pretty beasts are intractable.