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January 7th, 2013

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Being A Misogynist Can Help You Get Laid

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“Misogynist: A man who hates women as much as women hate one another.”  - H.L. Mencken

Misogyny can be a dilemma for the Western player practicing game. Growing up, many of us learned that sexism is evil. We loved, respected and even pedestalized our mothers and sisters. Some of us had contempt for misogynistic men before we took the red pill. However, it is hard to deny that many misogynists do well with women.

So is sexism useful for players? Some in the manosphere argue that misogyny is helpful for developing tight game. Krauser uses “cheerful misogyny.” Other players disagree. The gentlemen at Third Millennium Men argue passionately against misogyny.

Will Misogyny Help Or Hurt Your Game?

Can you love women and still be a misogynist? Is sexism wrong? Red pill men should look beyond moral questions of whether misogyny is “bad” or “good.” The only question you should ask is this: will misogyny help my game? The answer is yes. Misogyny will make your game tighter, especially in relationships. Embrace it and become a misogynist.

I do not advocate or condone hatred or abuse of women.  Love your mother, sisters, and all your female relatives. However, be proud to be a misogynist. Reject feminism and the laughable premise that women are equal to men. Do not take silly and frivolous females seriously. They should be sheltered, protected, led, and dominated. However, do not hate them. Hatred is counter-productive to your goals.

When Should You Use Misogyny?

Like game itself, expressing misogyny is an art. The typical Western feminist woman can only take so much sexism at once. Be sure to display it at the right time and in measured doses. Convey your misogyny selectively and only when it benefits you, usually after you have slept with her and she’s highly attracted to you. Thus, it is an effective harem management tool.

How can you express your misogyny? Tell her:

  • If she gets fat, you will leave her.
  • You support the loss of her voting privileges (once states repeal the 19th Amendment.)
  • Her career and college degree do not impress you.
  • You do not care where she has traveled.

Tell her that she had better be useful and available in the bedroom and the kitchen. You expect women to sacrifice their careers for the sake of staying at home and taking care of the children.

  • Insist that she cook and clean for you.
  • Make her buy you food and do your laundry.
  • Insist that she be available to you sexually at all times.

This list will get you started, come up with your own ideas and learn to weave your personal style of sexism into your game.

Be A Loving Misogynist

Always be happy and teasing when showing misogyny. Be a loving man and treat your women well. Never be hateful. Express your sexism with a light heart and a twinkle in your eye. Although they will never admit it, women love a happy misogynist.

With enough practice, misogyny will become a part of your personality and help your sex life.

Read More: Passive game vs. Active game



About the Author

is an American writer. You can read his blog at Red Pill Game and follow him on Twitter.

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  • Uncle Elmer

    Tell her “A Man Wants a Wife, Not a Co-Worker”. Google it.

  • Basil Ransom

    You, sir, are confused. Misogyny IS the hatred of women, just as misandry means the hatred of men. Properly understood, nothing you said qualifies as misogynistic. It is, however, *patriarchal.*

    • Nik

      My sentiments exactly. Having reasonable expectations from a female is not misogyny, its simply demanding respect. All the bulleted items Halfbreed mentions are reasonable.

      The trouble is that we as men in the western world have been taught that should we expect anything from a female that we are “misogynistic” which of course, is bullshit.

      • Penny

        Are you fucking serious? YOU demand respect? Hello, respect is typically a polite common courtesy, but when you turn out to be a sexist asshole, you lost my respect. Why? Because how do you expect me to respect you when you don’t respect me? Since when does your respect override mine.
        Your attitude is misogynic because you won’t even value a women’s opinion on how she wants to be treated in her own fucking relationship yet to demand respect. Are you fucking kidding me? Women are straight out telling men what they want in a relationship and all you can do is wipe snot from your nose. Grow the fuck up.

    • anon1

      you sound like the type of person that says randian selfishness is not actually being selfish. sometimes strong terminology has to be reclaimed from the liberals to deliver a point.

  • Doc

    Once told a woman who saw me rip down a poster and toss it, that I treat my posters like I do my women. When they get wrinkled, I toss them and get a new one.

    Took her a minute to catch on, but it was long enough for me to move on to the next thing, so she got the message without my having to deal with her non-sense. It’s all about HOW you say it… :)

    • Anonymous

      that is so retarded

      • Tomasz

        Just wat I was thinking. RETARDED

  • http://krauserpua.com krauserpua

    Thanks for the reference.

  • Measures

    This is by far the worst post I’ve seen on ROK so far. On top of not providing any useful information, this article strikes of my biggest pet peeves: the the overuse and misuse of the word misogyny. Like the guy above said, use “patriarchal” or “chauvinistic”. Nothing you said has anything to do with hating women, and only gives ammo to to the men and women that wrongly accuse other men of hating women. I know you guys are trying to have new content everyday, but this was super weak and shouldn’t have made the cut.

    • Stuki Moi

      The thing is, the libtards have redefined misogyny to mean not “hating women”, which few men do, but simply disapproving of what they laud as the behavior of “strong women”, which is something all men ought to do.

  • external

    I agree with the others, understanding the true nature of women and the real natural differences between men and women and conducting your relationships accordingly, is not misogyny. The social contstructist liars in our society would call it that or “sexism”, but we know better in the manopshere as we don’t live our lives with a cognitive dissonance and blindly follow whatever is Correct (the female imperative).

  • anon123

    I’m interested in where a girl travels and where and what she has done with her life. I don’t want a robot… the fact that I’m talking to her means she’s already passed the looks test. after that I need an interesting person to be around.

    what do you want? a house wife?

    • Anond

      The more she travels, the more she drinks from random dicks. Is that what you want?

      • Anon

        I’m a women who has traveled and lived all over the world and I’ve not drank from any random dicks. What’s your point?

      • Jessi

        So? Don’t be hating cause we can get screwed more often than you doll.

      • Freyja

        There are a particular breed of women attracted to douchey men: the ones that get around & have mastered hiding it. Insecure women go for men like you, & you only make them feel worse so trust, your wife is going to drink from more dicks than you can begin to imagine. & you deserve no less my friend! It’s a passive aggressor coping method, & you’ve definitely earned it. Enjoy that beat up pussy while real men enjoy real women that respect them for their integrity & character, 2 virtues far beyond your capacities

  • Beidas

    LOL – There’s a reason God gave men a convenient handle – and it’s not so they can lead us women around!! Quite the reverse, sweetie.

    • Captain Courageous

      And how many handles have you had in that filthy mouth of yours, treacle?

      • Roosh

        Zing

      • Beidas

        Don’t worry honey, we can’t latch onto it if you won’t let it go!

    • Eric

      Solid troll attempt, but nothing spectacular- 6.5/10.

      • Jhonathan

        This is clearly not a troll attemp, you’re just trying to make it look like one. For your awkward attemp though, I’ll give you a 4/100.

  • monster221

    cheauvanism man not misogyny. i dont HATE them, i love them. just not all of them at the same time on the grounds that they are female. like 2 or 3 of my choosing at a time. i certainly dont accept the absurd notion that they can do anything i can do. and im definately not settling no broad down that aint gonna show me a good time after a long days work and cook me some god damn food. if you want a carreer then you dont need a man, do it on your own. if you just flat out refuse to cook and suck dick, well then sweetheart, im not the guy for you. im sure there are thousands of chumps who will put up with that shit out of sheer lonliness and frustration. it aint me babe.

  • http://redpillgame.com Halfbreed

    Thanks guys, appreciate the feedback.

  • StylesMyles

    Stumbled upon this article and thought I’d like to share the feminist tone taken in this article. I personally was watching this moment live and was pumped that Musburger, possibly my favorite color commentator alive, was ecstatic over how hot this chick was. He complimented this girls beauty, yet of course, feminist America takes this in a negative and “awkward” way and bashes one of our best male TV icons of all time. The man saw a hot bitch, give the old man a damn break! Really though, the dude is 73 and a college football hall of fame broadcaster, he is allowed to call it how it is. Amen.

    http://www.usatoday.com/story/gameon/2013/01/07/espns-awkward-moment-with-aj-mccarrons-girlfriend/1816283/

  • DC Phil

    Non-attachment might be a better way to go. That is, she’s around, but you can leave her when it no longer suits you.

    I like the subtle jibes approach. Said in the proper context, it can elicit playful arm punches. I’ve been there, felt that. :)

  • KK

    Halfbreed, friend, thanks for the article. but I tend to agree with the rest of the gentlemen here. The idea is not about to be or not to be a misogynist, (I have not problem to say that I really love my mom, grandma, sisters and nieces), if a girl is smart she can study whatever she wants, etc. That is not the issue. The idea is simple, don’t buy bullshit from women ever. (and for that matter men, but we are talking about getting laid).
    If a girl says or act like this:

    I am only interested in x type of guy. Dont buy it
    I am not an easy lay.Dont buy it
    I dont like Jerks. Dont buy it
    I dont kiss in a first date. Dont buy it
    I am so much better than you. Dont buy it

    In synthesis when interacting with women you want to fuck treat them like little kids and don´t be affected about anything they say or do.Even if you cannot fuck one single girl you will feel better by not caring about it and this paradoxically it is what will get you the big V.

  • Francesco

    Interesting article…

    But, as Basil Ransom and other people pointed out, “misogyny” is by definition “a hatred of women”.
    Maybe “sexist” would fit more.

  • Dillon

    I’m not trying to insult anyone, but the others are right, this is a bad article. Like others have already pointed out, what he’s talking about should be termed “male chauvinism”, not “misogyny”

    The content is also pretty common sense. Anyone who doesn’t already agree with the author(aside from his definition of the term misogyny) probably doesn’t belong on ROK in the first place.

  • Vice from www.sosuave.net

    The girl I’m currently dating eats this kind of stuff up. She’ll start cleaning and say “I’ll do this because I’m the giiiiiirrrlllll!!”. She thinks it’s hilarious when I make women drivers jokes, and is just pleasant to be around in general.

  • dagoberto

    I actually don’t like the “stay at home in the kitchen” type women. I have lived in latin america since 2004. I was married to a girl for 10 years that was this type. Good looking, nice enough….but completely dependent on me. She is now 35 and doesn’t know how to use a computer. It isn’t that she is dumb, it is that her dad raised her to be dominated. When you are with this type of woman…it is like dating a child, or worse, a child slave. You wind of making all the decisions, and doing all of the thinking for her. It gets anoying. It is like being a boss and you never get a day off from your employee. I know that Roosh doesn’t advocate marraige, and I am now single and happily dating college girls in Panama(I am 37 now) but there is a delicate balance involved in misogony.

  • Sean

    The idea that women should be subservient is ridiculous and only plays into men who are insecure about their sexuality. If a woman is successful, independent, and has traveled that’s something that she has chosen for herself. If you feel threatened by such women, then don’t date them. But don’t make blanket statements like ‘oh i’m a misogynist, I want a submissive woman,’ without backing it up with some concrete reasons you believe the way you do. The fact of the matter is that the earning gap between men and women is closing, and websites like this are just the backlash of those who are insecure. The more equal men and women are in society, the more it allows each individual to be his or herself. Maybe you’re a ‘mysoginist’ but it’s cowardly to suggest that another group of people should be subjected through legal means. If you truly believed women to be the lesser there would be no need to subjugate them.
    I feel like this website is written by socially awkward men who are taking out their frustrations on this weird concept that so-called ‘male culture’ is under attack. stop fretting about so called ‘feminists’ and just be yourself.

  • Sundance

    “The *fact* of the matter is that the earning gap between men and women is closing, and websites like this are just the backlash of those who are insecure.”

    You are either the lamest armchair psychologist -or- you actually have some sort of factual basis for diagnosing the authors of this blog.

    Lets see… you claim the authors are cowardly, threatened, insecure and frustrated for writing an article that makes a seemingly counter intuitive observation about (at least some) women. Project much? Perhaps it is your insecurity that blinds you to masculine and feminine differences. Why don’t you just accept women for who they prefer to be?

  • J

    What a bunch of whiny man children, Most men I have known want a woman who is educated, has a good career and if she has traveled that is even better. They want a women that is well rounded in all aspects of life. Progression is what helps our society and trying to set it back doesn’t do that. Maybe lots of women would be happy being a housewife but trying to deny them the basic rights (such as democracy) that have shaped the western world is ridiculous. There are many things women have done that have greatly improved our quality of life and before you try to act like they are all unintelligent mindless drones, maybe you guys should try picking up a damn history book. Check, and mate.

  • Smuffy

    Wow, um, I just accidently came across this article and I sooo don’t belong on this site. o.o You chauvinist men are screwed up in the head and probably don’t know how to function in modern society. If you think this is what women are attracted to, then I just…I don’t even know what to say.

    • Smuffy

      accidentally*

    • lsatht

      They are wayyyy past being chauvinists. The goal of all these males (can’t really call them men) is to hook up with ho s and skanks, then complain there aren’t any good women out ther.

    • Fawn

      Thankyou! I found this site because there is some other sexist article, and nearly every article since then has been just as bad. This place disgusts me. But YOU Sir, restore my faith in humanity. Thanks. You sound like a great guy.

  • Natta

    Hahaha completely agree with smuffy. All these men here are insecure little boys . This whole article is just so tragic and sad I honestly don’t know what to say. I didn’t know there was actually scum like this, I’d say men, but none of you small sad little people are “men”.
    Kill yourselves.

  • Kezo

    Read it. Initially agreed that the uneducated author was unaware of the actual definition of misogyny. Read it again and realized he unintentionally gave a text book example of it. Heh.

  • Embrace_misogyny_right…

    very empty here in the comments section…

  • Jessi

    Oh shit, I’m a reverse misogynist! Cause what he just described would be the perfect man. But he forgot to mention that they need to keep their mouths shut too….

    • Go to hell

      fuck off. no girl wants to date you.

  • HH
  • Anonymous

    Feminism is the only reason you guys get any pussy at all nowadays, well that plus the lying douche-bags and naive chicks out there. And this article reeks of ignorance. Be a ‘loving misogynist’? Quite the oxymoron, makes no sense. At all. I hate people like this, who feel it’s ‘okay’ to use others for their needs or wants. No better than a woman using a man for money, which most men bitch and moan about nowadays too. Maybe if everyone would just start respecting each other, and stop allowing such disrespectful behavior to take place, there would be more respectable human beings in this world. Until then, good luck finding a decent partner. Continue ‘bitching’ and ‘moaning’ about where all the good men and women have gone. You probably used them at some point or another and turned them into man/woman hating sluts.

    • Truth

      I agree with you for the most part but about the pussy thing in relation with feminism is far off the chart. They say feminism is to get equal rights for women but reality begs to differ. Feminism is no more than to take anti male stance and use that position to get empathy over the world which is really sad. Women nowadays use the promise for sex to get what they want when they want and use it as a weapon perhaps we ”men” are resposible for this but I can’t support that with any hard evidence. I think the moment women use sex as a weapon our responsibility as men is to either dump the bitch or deny her everything and give no quarter. If she won’t do as we please we will go to the other 5 to 10 women who will.

  • snapp

    Man, who let you inside the house?! That lawn isnt going to f***ing mow itself! Know your place!
    Now, imagine that as the norm of society, and what you would hear every time you tried to to something other than mowing the god damn lawn. Unless lawn mowing is incredibly fulfilling for you, your life will suck. But hey, its so sexy the way women force you into lawn mowing, you cant complain right? rawr.

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  • Kyle Woodside

    Of course, the misogynistic types get laid. Why? Because they don’t put women on pedestals, they’re not doormats, they don’t shower them with gifts/attention, they’re blunt etc.

    • Respect PLZ

      You act like behaviour is black and white. You think there is spectrum between how passive someone is and how aggressive someone is? You either have to be a doormat or a misogynist macho douche?
      Why can’t you people respect women and just go in the middle ground? Treat her like a fucking person for Christ’s sake.
      I’m a woman, and misogynists have got to be the biggest fucking turn off.

      • Ben Resnick

        Respect PLZ is correct, although this method will work to a considerable extent to have sex with submissive women with a weak self-image. As a man, I reject the glorification of man-bashing and citing wage differences as proof of discrimination in the valiant name of feminism. I reject self-pity and the promotion of a victim mindset by many feminists. I instead encourage strong independent entrepreneurial women who are not easily offended or dominated and who won’t hesitate to blow a rapists head off.

    • Freyja

      Haha you’re definitely not getting laid.

      • http://www.facebook.com/farty.fartsalot Farty Fartsalot

        He’s right & I’m sure he doesn’t care what some fat feminist thinks.

  • Freyja

    Whoa, this has to be a joke. Or the person who wrote this was molested by female relatives growing up to be this screwed up, or he’s impotent. Definitely sociopathic. The need to dominate stems from insecurity & lack of a moral compass, dangerous combination. Pure weakness, pure ignorance. A man who loves his mother & sisters doesn’t give other men this kind of advice. I hope for the sake of society men like this are institutionalized, & for his sake I hope his impotence is treated. Such bad juju!

    • Jhonathan

      All the men I’ve met, either from school, or work, r male friends, have all been like that, subtle misogynistic, acting like they don’t understand what they are doing, but turns out they do and they do it on purpose. Fuck you sick fucks. You’re never getting laid.Ever.

  • Albertito

    To Freyija: I am an extreme misogynist. I really HATE woman, how passive they are, they want everything done, you never know what they want, black is white and white is black, get much more pleasure going shopping than in sex, they know how to drive men crazy and they do it without willing any sex at all, just to boost their confidence, etc etc. In one word: they are crazy creatures that lose my time. And I don’t want to lose my time anymore. And for the ladies: I don’t like men, I am not gay. It’s just that I hate you all. Said.

  • Γιώργος Ανυφαντής

    men are usually pigs, women can be pigies too. so the problem lies solely in the fact that there are screwing pigs and not screwing ones…

  • Ray

    Please tell me this is a joke.

  • I am Laid Low by the Matriarch

    Feminazi stole my ice cream. But I’m a nice guy!!

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